We had a strange occurrence at our house sometime in
November. That we had a strange
occurrence is not in and of itself strange for us. The fact that it repeated itself and this
time in front of witnesses made it a little more extraordinary.
It’s no secret that I miss my little brindle greyhound Girly
Girl. She was my heart dog and I only
got 3 ½ years with her. Losing her to
osteosarcoma was heartbreaking. Well,
losing her at all was heartbreaking.
Girly Girl remains a big part of my life despite her no longer residing
with us in the physical sense. Mumma
talks to her all the time. There have
been many times when I have felt her nose bump me in the hip or behind just
like she used to do.
I feel her around the house.
She has visited several times in dreams.
Believe it, or don’t believe it as you will. But as for me and grandma, we believe.
Mumma was working one day in mid-November. That involves sitting at my desk in my office
at one end of my house. Blue and Bettina
spend 99% of their day with me on their office beds. That was the case on this particular
day.
In the living room which is down a hallway almost at the
other end of the house, we have some more dog
beds. On one of those beds is a pillow. This pillow is actually a version of a
“pillow pet”. It is a dragon which can
be converted into a castle with some clever folding and a zipper. I’ve never been able to figure it out so it
stays permanently in castle mode. There
is a doorbell on this pillow that, when pushed, makes a noise of a dragon
roaring. I originally got the pillow for
Blue but when he lays on it and accidentally pushes that button, it scares the
crap out of him. So the pillow stays at
the far end of the largest dog bed.
THE pillow on the dog bed in Girly Girl's space. |
We have had this pillow upwards of three years now and it
has been a pretty good neighbor. Nice
and quiet. On this mid-November day, the
pillow started to roar. Since we were
all back in the office, this was an interesting occurrence. The first thing that popped into my head was
that the pillow may be short circuiting or perhaps the battery is finally
dying. I waited but there were no more
roars.
Half as a joke, I said out loud, “Girly Girl, was that
you?” A couple seconds later, the pillow
roared for the second time. The hair on
my neck stood up a little. I double
checked that Bettina and Blue were still with me in the office. I thought these events over for a little bit
then said, “Sweet girl, I really hope that was you, can you do it again?” A couple seconds later, the pillow roared for
a third time.
Two dogs, empty bed to the left. Everyone stays on the carpet. |
Flash forward and we were celebrating our Christmas with
family on the last Saturday in December.
Grammy was there as were Charlie, Fox and Crandall. We were all enjoying visiting with each
other. I had moved Bettina’s princess
tent downstairs so there was more room in the living room. I put a bed in that place which was
traditionally where Girly Girl’s bed always was. No dog will lay on any bed placed in that
spot. It can be the most coveted bed in
the house. They walk up to it, look at
it for a while and then lay on the carpet instead. There was only one other bed in the living
room, but 3 greyhounds. (Blue of course,
was supreme in his Man
Cave .) No dice.
One dog took the remaining bed and two dogs lay on the carpet.
We were being merry and jolly when the dragon pillow laying
on the bed in Girly Girl’s space and which had been silent since mid-November,
roared. I had shared my previous
experience with Grammy so when this happened our eyes got big and we stared at
each other. I waited a second then said,
“Girly Girl, is that you? Can you do it
again?” There were a few seconds and the
pillow roared again. Grammy explained to
Charlie why we were so excited about a pillow.
We talked it over for a little while, were there any other
explanations? After some debate it was
decided I should try again. So I said,
“Sweet Pea, I can’t tell you how happy we are to have you here with us at
Christmas. Can you do it one more
time?” For the third time, the pillow
roared. Everyone’s hair stood on end.
There was some additional debate and we decided that it must
be her. Finally I said, “OK baby girl,
we know you’re here now, so you don’t have to make it roar again. The pillow made no further sounds that
day. In fact, it didn’t make any more
sounds that weekend.
On the Tuesday following our little celebration, I was
laying on the couch in the living room thinking about how nice Christmas had
been. I was thinking about how happy I
was that Girly Girl had been with us and that she had found a way to let us
know she was there. So I said out loud,
“Thank you sweet girl for showing yourself to Grammy on Christmas. It meant a lot to all of us.” A couple seconds later, the pillow roared.
It has not roared since.
It was your girl giving you a sign, that's amazing. I so badly want a sign from my Tommy boy. I miss him so much.
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ReplyDeleteWhat a fantastic story! Girly Girl was one in a million! :)
ReplyDeleteThis made me cry. What a special bond. What a special girl.
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